For the use of the young

Oscar Wilde (1854-1900): 

Phrases And Philosophies For The Use Of The Young 

Bibliographic Notes:  First published in the 1894 December (and only) issue of the Oxford 

student magazine The Chameleon. 

The first duty in life is to be as artificial as possible.  What the second duty 

is no one has as yet discovered. 

Wickedness is a myth invented by good people to account for the curious 

attractiveness of others. 

If the poor only had profiles there would be no difficulty in solving the 

problem of poverty. 

Those who see any difference between soul and body have neither. 

A really well-maded buttonhole is the only link between Art and Nature. 

Religions die when they are proved to be true.  Science is the record of 

dead religions. 

The well-bred contradict other people.  The wise contradict themselves. 

Nothing that actually occurs is of the smallest importance. 

Dullness is the coming of age of seriousness. 

In all unimportant matters, style, not sincerity, is the essential.  In all 

important matters, style, not sincerity, is the essential. 

If one tells the truth, one is sure, sooner or later, to be found out.

Pleasure is the only thing one should live for.  Nothing ages like happiness. 

It is only by not paying one's bills that one can hope to live in the memory 

of the commercial classes. 

No crime is vulgar, but all vulgarity is crime.  Vulgarity is the conduct of 

others. 

Only the shallow know themselves. 

Time is a waste of money. 

One should always be a little improbable. 

There is a fatality about all good resolutions.  They are invariably made 

too soon. 

The only way to atone for being occasionally a little over-dressed is by 

being always absolutely over-educated. 

To be premature is to be perfect. 

Any preoccupation with ideas of what is right and wrong in conduct shows 

an arrested intellectual development. 

Ambition is the last refuge of the failure. 

A truth ceases to be true when more than one person believes in it. 

In examinations the foolish ask questions that the wise cannot answer.

Greek dress was in its essence inartistic.  Nothing should reveal the body 

but the body. 

One should either be a work of art, or wear a work of art. 

It is only the superficial qualities that last.  Man's deeper nature is soon 

found out. 

Industry is the root of all ugliness. 

The ages live in history through their anachronisms. 

It is only the gods who taste of death.  Apollo has passed away, but 

Hyacinth, whom men say he slew, lives on.  Nero and Narcissus are 

always with us. 

The old believe everything: the middle-aged suspect everything: the young 

know everything. 

The condition of perfection is idleness: the aim of perfection is youth. 

Only the great masters of style ever succeed in being obscure. 

There is something tragic about the enormous number of young men there 

are in England at the present moment who start life with perfect profiles, 

and end by adopting some useful profession. 

To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.